The Key Habit

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How to talk to a partner about it

The hardest conversation on the path, prepared: what to say, what not to promise, and how to listen to the answer.

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Say it plainly, once, without a speech. "I have a habit I'm working on stopping. It's pornography. I'm telling you because hiding it has been part of the problem." Then stop talking and let them respond.

Do not promise a cure. Promise honesty and the plan you actually have.

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  • Accountability partner

    One person who knows, whom you tell the truth to on a schedule. The single most protective arrangement on the path.

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