Articles

Answers to one question each, with the sources under every one. Read them in any order. The path is where the sequence lives.

20 articles in 4 topics


Quitting

7 articles

Stopping pornography and compulsive masturbation: the decision, the cues, the first weeks, the slips.

7 min readUpdated October 17, 2026
What happens when you stop watching pornography

What happens when you stop watching pornography: what people commonly report in the first days and weeks, what studies found, and the modest real benefits.

1 min readUpdated October 13, 2026
What to do when an urge hits

A five-step sequence for the next ten minutes, in the order to do them, for the moment reading is not enough.

5 min readUpdated September 15, 2026
What chronic use actually costs

Not morality. Attention, relationships and hours. What the evidence supports about heavy, compulsive use, and what it does not.

1 min readUpdated September 14, 2026
How to talk to a partner about it

The hardest conversation on the path, prepared: what to say, what not to promise, and how to listen to the answer.


Energy and health

8 articles

Sleep, food, water, movement and daylight. A tired body hears every cue louder.

8 min readUpdated October 17, 2026
How to sleep better and fix your sleep schedule

Fix the wake time, get morning light, move caffeine earlier, keep alcohol and the phone away from bed. What the evidence supports and when to see a doctor.

7 min readUpdated October 17, 2026
How much water should you drink a day?

Official figures for total water run from 2 to 3.7 liters a day, and food supplies part of it. Thirst and pale urine are the simple guides for most people.

8 min readUpdated October 17, 2026
How much sun do you need for vitamin D?

How skin makes vitamin D, why season, latitude and skin tone matter, official advice by region, upper limits, and what trials found about mood.


Habits

4 articles

How habits form and how they break, from the research and the best books on it.


What to do instead

1 article

The hours and the feelings the habit used to take, and better places for them.

6 min readUpdated October 17, 2026
What to do instead of watching pornography

Match what you do to the feeling that set it off: bored, lonely, tired, stressed or restless. Then real things to fill the hours, starting small.